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1st video is a 30-second DISTRESSING CONTENT WARNING.
2nd Cheltenham town live stream
3rd Live stream from home
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Shows my deceased wife, and I strongly recommend that you seriously consider whether or not you are emotionally strong enough to view it.
It’s from 13th December 2023 when I was able to see Lucy at Beechwood funeral parlour after the post mortem.
5th video Lucy’s funeral.
6th video The truth about what they did to Lucy Meszaros
7th video Lucy wanted to live
Other videos evidence Lucy having an acceptable and reasonable quality of life. She was happy.
Videos have been edited to remove the names of all ‘care’ professionals because NHS (aka Gloucestershire police) have an interim gagging order on me.
I’m still editing other videos that identified NHS and the Cheltenham ‘care’ company employees
(Some of the original live streams weren’t edited).
In each of the videos I describe how staff from Cheltenham and Gloucester hospitals, Cheltenham district nurses, Cheltenham GP’s, and a Cheltenham based ‘care’ company neglected Lucy prior to her death.
A couple of weeks before Lucy died, employees from that ‘care’ company had been using the same gloves that they used to change soiled pads, to place tablets in Lucy’s mouth, and even – ‘stir’ her food with those soiled gloves. (captured on CCTV).
I believe that Lucy not only still had urosepsis, but also C-Diff (Clostridium difficile) because of the ‘carer’ disgusting lack of hygiene.
Several of mine and Carers Want Competence FB page posts tell the whole story relating to how various health and social ‘care’ professionals callously neglected Lucy, their vicious retaliation with nefarious and draconian attempts to sweep it all under the carpet.
Lucy had MS diagnosed in 2004, which after a few years calmed down and didn’t affect her to the point of being severely disabled.
Here’s a more detailed account of what led to the gross negligence manslaughter of Lucy.
From approximately 2014/15 Lucy had stomach ulcers, kidney stones, UTI’s, faecal impaction, painfully distended stomach, occasionally vomiting faeces-smelling, coffee-grain-looking with blood. Faeces would also sporadically seep from her vaginal area.
The faecal impaction and vaginal faeces leakage always coincided with uti infections that usually escalated to urosepsis (approximately 35 times).
GP’s frequently acknowledged that Lucy was asymptomatic and that she presented with every symptom of sepsis, but then would speak to poorly trained district nurses who often contradictorily attributed this life-threatening condition to MS,
It was very rare that Lucy was treated with IV antibiotics for urosepsis until it escalated to infection-induced seizures, strokes, heart attacks (and a few years later, 2020, even a cardiac arrest).
But Lucy was much stronger than they gave her credit for and she recovered, albeit each time these [people ignored urosepsis her cognitive ability declined, eventually it did leave her without mental capacity to make uninformed important decisions, but effectively she was no different that a person with a mental age of a 6 to10 year old child.
District nurses were eventually allocated to provide bowel care, and although they were supposed to be trained and competent professionals, some were exactly the opposite.
They used the same black and mouldy bowel irrigation tubing and bag for up to eight months without changing it, were extremely rough when inserting it and often causing Lucy to to bleed.
One day an unfamiliar district nurse came to do the bowel irrigation, and noticed the state of the mouldy equipment her colleagues were using, and reported the incompetent ones.
She also suggested to the continence team that a different type of bowel care equipment be used, and in 2018 that was implemented. They didn’t send that nurse to the house again.
The only problem remaining was that the same district nurses who had been reported for incompetence were still allocated and had become hostile.
We were stuck with them and had to make the best of the situation by smiling, being polite and very humbly apologising if and when we raised concerns about them.
Out of pure two-faced vengeance they soon began to fail to report to the GP when they witnessed faeces coming from Lucy’s vaginal area, and although on each occasion, to my face, they assured they would “send a note to the GP” – they didn’t.
Beside the district nurses, there have also been GP’s, paramedics, A&E staff, hospital nurses, doctors, each of our domiciliary carers, and even a female social worker, have personally witnessed (on many occasions) Lucy losing faeces from her vaginal area. They had also been shown phone videos when she was rushed to hospital.
We know for a fact that something, somewhere inside Lucy’s body kept causing this to happen.
There was over five years of clinicians continuously blaming urosepsis on MS.
I became sick and tired of listening so often from some who were nothing but arrogant judgemental disability discriminators, saying – “I can see that this lady has MS, she ‘must have’ such a poor quality of life” – At least three times I discovered that they had covertly authorised DNAR’s behind-our-back.
There were eight years of refusals to resolve the; stomach ulcers, kidney stones, UTI’s, faecal impaction, painfully distended stomach, occasionally vomiting faeces-smelling, coffee-grain-looking with blood, and faeces sporadically seep from her vaginal area.
Lucy was blue-lighted and admitted to hospital with her 35th (approx) urosepsis infection that district nurses, GP’s, Rapid Response, hospital nurses and doctors kept disregarding because apart from the physical symptoms, she was asymptomatic.
Why didn’t they do what I frequently requested, read her medical history so that they would CLEARLY see just how many times they had been wrong, constantly risked her life and failed her.
After weeks of sepsis being disregarded again, around April/May 2023 Lucy was rushed to Gloucester hospital, lost loads of weight because they didn’t have the patience to sit and help her eat or take fluids. Every time I visited she had been left lying in wet and soiled pads, got a deep pressure ulcer, IF they dressed it they used such tiny dressings that didn’t even cover the wound, and the IV antibiotics hadn’t been effective because her bowel care was grossly inadequate, so more faeces discharge fighting against the antibiotics. If I said anything, some staff developed an extremely huffy attitude.
A urology consultant decided finally, that he would operate on the kidney stones, and Lucy was transferred to Cheltenham hospital on 16th July 2023,
She still had urosepsis and even with several weeks of IV antibiotics they hadn’t been effective because her bowel care in hospital was STILL grossly inadequate, so more faeces discharge continued to fight against the antibiotics.
Even staff in that Cheltenham ward left Lucy lying in the same wet and soiled pads for up to 12 hours, the pressure ulcer became worse, and the IV antibiotics (Yes, you guessed it) still hadn’t been effective because her bowel care was grossly inadequate, so more faeces discharge fighting against the antibiotics.
They couldn’t deny that kidney stones had been one of the causal factors of urosepsis along with everything else that they kept refusing to resolve. and the operation that they refused for 7 years didn’t happen until three months before Lucy died.
But these so-called clinicians still refused to grasp the logic that even when Lucy have IV antibiotics for urosepsis, she STILL needed regular bowel care for the faecal impaction.
I repeated time after time the same thing as I had said to a colorectal surgeon in 2018;
‘if faecal impaction is what’s forcing faeces to seep faeces seeping from Lucy’s lady bits, those antibiotics are obviously not going to be as effective, because they have to fight against the faecal impaction – and that, coupled with the rest, is much of what’s causing the infection in the first place’.
Lucy still had that same unresolved infection when they operated on the kidney stones, and even on 26th July when she was unsafely discharged, also with the hospital acquired grade 4 pressure ulcer.
Within 24 hours, paramedics and a decent locum GP arranged for Rapid Response to come to the house and give more IV antibiotics at home.
District nurses insisted on using dressings so small that the adhesive border kept sticking to the open wound. Our carer then complained about them, so they decided that they are going to refuse to do Lucy’s crucial bowel care, saying she doesn’t need it anymore, which was now leaving her literally screaming out in pain from faecal impaction which caused more faeces to seep from her vagina.
Within hours the care company said they had received a counter-complaint and had been ordered to withdraw from providing care for Lucy.
As I had been arrested (as per video) on hospitals false and sickening fabricated allegation, bail conditions forbid me from taking care of Lucy myself, as I had done for 20 years. I then had to get a different care company.
To make the the urosepsis infection even worse was when those ‘carers’ had been using the same soiled gloves that they had used to change faeces soiled pads, and place medication in Lucy’s mouth and even ‘stir’ her food with those soiled gloves.
Lucy died within two weeks, whilst vomiting faecal matter and blood. (I know all this because we have CCTV at home, which I watched hours after Lucy had died.
I insisted on a full and thorough postmortem, giving logical reasons and a full medical history, and the coroner office agreed.
I told them that I was willing to pay for a completely independent and ‘out of county’ postmortem, and although they acknowledged and accepted that my reasons (below*) made sense and were justified, they refused:
** Several behind-our-back covert DNACPR’s, covert ReSPECT and covert DOLs, years of reverse-blame false allegations in retaliation to complaints, lots of sweeping under the carpet, and a strong possibility of bias, conflict of interest and allegiance with any pathologist even remotely associated with Gloucestershire NHS **.
They won’t say why they refused.
The coroners office acknowledged and accepted that these had not been resolved.
Because internal organs move and can possibly conceal a fistula’s location, I asked that the pathologist “conduct the post mortem as intrusive as is humanely and physically possible, so that he could investigate and examine every inch of Lucy’s internal areas that are connected to her stomach, digestive system, small bowel, large bowel, and vaginal organs”.
Coroners officer agreed, and I was assured of a “full and thorough postmortem, and that all possible samples would be taken, including vomit, blood, urine, faeces, and sent out of county to be analysed”.
They failed to ensure any of this and will not say why.
The post-mortem was ‘basic’ and certainly not investigative enough to determine what led to Lucy dying suddenly in the traumatic way that she did.
The pathologist they used is ‘Lead’ for a company who supplies senior staff to NHS (also a risk of conflict or allegiance).
The coroner has recorded Lucy’s untimely death as ‘natural’ by intestinal haemorrhage.
I have provided much irrefutable evidence of causal factors, and question it being ‘natural causes’, because those causal factors that clinicians refused to resolve most certainly contributed to what ultimately led to Lucy dying.
I informed the Registrar for deaths of Lucy’s 10-year medical history, the constant refusals of Gloucester and Cheltenham hospital professionals and their legal department to accept my LPA, the improper and covert authorisations behind my back, the neglect, and countless unsafe hospital discharges.
Based on those facts, she was “not happy to sign a death certificate as ‘natural’ causes”.
She acknowledged (audio recorded) that the contributing and linked causal factors that led to Lucy’s death should be listed on her certificate and a ‘Prevention of Future Deaths should be raised. Lucy’s death was FAR from ‘natural’. The Registrar referred me back to the coroner office. But they refused to discuss why
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We strongly believe, in fact we KNOW because I can evidence it that Lucy’s medical treatment and ‘care’ were not taken as seriously as they should have been, and that my wife was consistently over many years, neglected by medical professionals who disregarded their duty of care based on their personal and judgmental opinions of how THEY thought a person with MS ‘Quality of Life’ should be.
Gloucester coroners office categorically ASSURED me that samples would be taken.. They failed to have that done.
They won’t say why.
I have NO DOUBT WHATSOEVER that the coroners office had an allegiance with Gloucestershire NHS and are complicit in concealing the neglect and abuse that Lucy suffered.
I then searched and found a company that would conduct a completely independent post-mortem for £5000. They wanted £2500 deposit.
During the next eight weeks, as I was trying to raise the money I was requested to send regular pictures of Lucy so that the pathologist could keep an eye on how she was decomposing and establish whether the post-mortem would still be viable or not, and the likelihood of thorough examination of tissue etc.
It wasn’t until 3rd January that I raised enough for the 1st payment.
On 5th January I had another email from the pathologist company asking for more pictures and a video of Lucy to show the independent pathologist how much after 35 days, Lucy had decomposed, but he concluded that Lucy had deteriorated too much and therefore it greatly lessened any chances of establishing the true cause of her death.
It was not until then that the funeral directors told me they had not been keeping Lucy in the freezer (only a fridge) because they were concerned about what Gloucestershire NHS would say.
If she had been in a freezer it would have prevented so much decomposing. and the independent post mortem would have gone ahead.
I know some might find it difficult to understand why, but for that whole length of time, almost eight weeks I had continued to go and sit with Lucy, talking to her, brushing her hair and comforting her at the funeral parlour.
Lucy didn’t like to be alone, she would have been lonely, frightened and confused.
On 14th March 2024 I did another Facebook live stream opposite the back of Cheltenham General hospital whilst a GHNFT board meeting was taking place and was arrested (for the 2nd time) whilst telling the truth about what had happened to my wife.
The arresting officer said it was for “harassment and potentially voyeurism”.
The hospitals legal department have what I consider to be the corrupt support of at least one person from Gloucestershire Constabulary, who have colluded to have an interim county court gagging order on me.
The physical and mental trauma that my wife was subjected to over many years, the loss of my wife and the mental anguish to myself is immeasurable.
Of course, I want closure for myself and justice for my wife’s suffering, because I can’t grieve until there is.
But this isn’t just about me. There are so many others that don’t have a voice.
If this were about a helpless animal there would be mass public outrage.
I’m still speaking out in public interest and for the safety of others in the event that future vulnerable patients and/or their families can protect themselves should they face similar or worse nefarious, barbaric behaviour from health and ‘care’ professionals.
It’s now 10th January 2025. I’m still on bail without charge since 14th March 2024 (almost 10 months.
Gloucestershire constabulary keep extending my bail every time the civil court case for NHS gagging order is adjourned, and they still haven’t found anything to charge me with.
They have had me arrested twice just for speaking out. The 1st arrest (never charged) resulted in bail for over a year – extended 4 times. The 2nd arrest 14th March 2024 (never charged) – still on bail but they’ve extended it FIVE TIMES within the last 10 months. They still haven’t found anything to charge me with.
On each arrest police refused to provide receipts or notes of seized property (audio and visual recordings evidencing hospital and professional carers neglect and abuse of my wife, my LPA H/W proof, family photos, mobile phones, wifi router, lap tops, my wife’s medication, my notes of raising concerns, and God knows what else.
Apparently the police are stretching it out until they get what the NHS hope, is an extended gagging order.
NHS and police think it will give more strength to charge me with unsubstantiated ‘malicious communications’ for speaking out in public interest.
All I’m doing is telling the truth and I will evidence it in the final court hearing.
The professionals who lied are going to be so red-faced when they’re cross examined and confronted with recordings in the final court hearing and who are going to be called to the stand and confronted with audio and secret device video recordings.
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